SDC at a glance
SDC was founded in 1999 in the Netherlands and runs a US office in North Carolina. The company says it has over 3 million members worldwide; in the US we counted around 35,000 active profiles, about half of them active each week. Members are mostly between 35 and 50, and roughly a third are women or couples.
Unlike most discreet dating apps, SDC is a community as much as a dating service. Alongside profiles you get forums, a travel calendar, party and club listings and speed-dating events. The site is available on desktop, iPhone and Android.
Privacy and verification
SDC scored 8.8 out of 10 for privacy. It does not have a panic button or a blur tool, but it makes up for that with control and trust.
- Private albums. Keep your face pictures in a private album and grant access to one member at a time. You can revoke access later.
- Restricted visibility. Choose whether singles, couples or only verified members can see your profile.
- Verification badges. A selfie and email check gives members a badge. Verified couples in particular cut out the classic single man posing as a couple.
- Approximate location. Your area is shown, never your exact spot.
- Discreet billing. Our statement used a neutral descriptor.
For anyone worried about being recognized, the private album is the key tool: set your public photos to non-face shots and share the rest only after chatting.
Members and real activity
As a verified couple we received more messages in our first week than on any other site we tested, and nearly all came from verified profiles. As a single man, replies were slower, which is normal for the lifestyle. Event listings were active in every major US city we checked.
The community side helps with safety. Members leave references for each other after meeting, and you can read them before you agree to anything, which is rare among discreet dating sites.
SDC prices in 2026
A free profile lets you browse, see events and use community pages. Full messaging and album access need premium. Website prices on October 14, 2026:
- 1 month: $33.00.
- 3 months: $22.00 a month ($66).
- 6 months: $16.50 a month ($99).
- 12 months: $13.75 a month ($165).
- Lifetime: $270 one time.
App store prices are higher and differ for single men and for couples or women, so we suggest paying on the website. SDC often runs free trial offers for new members.
Who SDC is best for
SDC is best for couples, unicorns and singles who are part of or curious about the swinging lifestyle and want a verified, private place to meet. It is also good for discreet hookups at lifestyle events, where everyone has been vetted.
If you want total anonymity as a single person, Victoria Milan has stronger hiding tools. For the largest pool, see AdultFriendFinder, or browse our full list of secret dating apps.
SDC prices at a glance
| Plan | Price | Billed |
|---|---|---|
| 1 month | $33.00 | $33.00 once |
| 3 months | $22.00/mo | $66.00 |
| 6 months | $16.50/mo | $99.00 |
| 12 months | $13.75/mo | $165.00 |
| Lifetime | $270.00 | one payment |
Free: Free profile, limited browsing, community pages, event and travel calendar. Free trial offers run often.